I heard this morning that Jean Nordahl had ended the struggle with colon cancer with a tie. Aside from Henrietta Lacks, we don’t lose our battles with cancer – the tumors and metastases leave the world when we do.
Jack and I had stopped by to see him a few weeks back. It was a good visit – touching on old times, places and people, and the ironies life has in store for each of us. For Jean, memory has him in a red log truck more than anything else.
He spoke to us of the irony of owning oil wells at a time when his body didn’t allow him to enjoy what they could provide him. I’m glad that the medical establishment could see past the opioid paranoia to provide a drug that could get him outside again – as we visited, I could only share that my own experience was early stage 3, while Jean calmly told of his stage 4 diagnosis.
I think back to the red house where Paul, Yolanda, Jean and Dave Nordahl lived with Grandma Vizzutti. Paul, who taught me to use a forester’s compass with a Jacob staff. I think of Yolanda’s efforts that were part of getting the new school for Trego when the construction boom came. I remember Dave’s love for Datsun Z-cars. With Jean gone the last of a very good family has passed.
Absent friends.
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